Animals

Take Care of Your Animals…

I can’t believe the animals I have seen outside.  We are firm believers in taking care of your pets or not having them at all.  Now if you have a Great Pyrenees or Husky this post may not be for you. 

Randy was driving to work this morning and saw a lab hunkered down along the side of the road.  He was nearly an hour away from home and called me not knowing what to do.  Long story short he didn’t turn around to try to capture the dog.  There was a house nearby, we already have 3 dogs (2 are rescues) and 11 cats (10 of them recent rescues), and he really needed to get to work and couldn’t afford the repercussions of being late.  At what point do we make ourselves stop?  At what point do we say enough is enough?  We don’t know if we will ever get to that point.  Randy is just sick now.  He’s afraid he will see the dog hit along the side of the highway on his way home.  Our his owners sick about their missing dog?  What was he doing out on a night where windchills were in the negatives?  Along a busy highway?

Randy told me if he sees it this afternoon on his way home there is no question whether or not he will stop.  He said is stomach just hurt when he saw the dog there along the side of the road.   I know exactly how he felt.  Awhile back I saw four dogs devouring roadkill along the side of the highway on the way home.  I cried all the way home.  How can people do this?  Toss them out along the side of the road to fend for themselves?  I will never know, thank goodness.  I look at Thai, our third rescue, and wonder how someone could look into his eyes and drive away as he sits along the side of a road somewhere.  Or how someone could dump Koal, our second rescue, and his brother at 12 weeks old along the side of a paved road under a broke down car.  I don’t get it and pray I never do.

I don’t know if there will ever be a stopping point for us.  I don’t know if there can be.  On rare occassions like this where we do pass up the opportunity to help a stray it eats at us just like it is eating at Randy now.  The initial vetrinarian expenses, the risk to our other animals at home, food, the fact that we keep our dogs inside (four dogs in the house?), and continued vetrinary and preventative care.  These are all things that race through our minds when we debate on if we can take on yet another animal.  Being in the midst of an adoption and the expenses involved there doesn’t help matters.  So for now we are still holding steady at three fur balls in our home, but who knows.

If we hadn’t stopped along the way we would have missed out on some of the sweetest moments in our life:

Thai

Randy and Thai snuggling

Ash has a licking fetish when it comes to Randy

Sometimes enough is enough

Lots of snuggling and sometimes a little jealousy

They are sneaky too

Cat naps

Playtime

Where Ash goes to hide when I’m vacuuming

Koal getting cozy

Thai with his bear

They are not perfect…never have been…probably never will be.  They have went to the bathroom on the floor, puked on the floor, chewed up things that mattered, and chewed up things that didn’t matter.  They bark, they bite, they get on your furniture, they sneak into your bed, they rub their wet noses on your clean pants, and leave dog hair on your black sweater.  They’ve killed cats, injured sheep, and countless other critters around our farm.  We’ve heard the trite, “I’d get rid of ’em!”   “I’d shoot ’em!” more than we care to acknowledge.  But we don’t “get rid of ’em” and we don’t “shoot ’em.”  We patch things up.  We build better fence.  We order training collars and work on training and obedience.  Most importantly, we give them attention, so they don’t feel the need to do bad things to get attention or act hyper and crazy because they don’t get out of their pen for more than a few minutes a week (if they are lucky). 

They are our’s…for better or worse…’til death do us part.

Take care of your pets in the cold winter days ahead.  Bring them inside or into your garage with a dog house or bed to keep them off the cold concrete.  Keep them somewhere they aren’t exposed to the elements.  Love them and treat them well.  They are a member of your family and your responsibility now.

Have a wonderful day and stay warm!

Adoption

Medical Updates…

Okay, I finally got through with someone at our doctor’s office to confirm out medical forms we need updated arrived.  I faxed them twice last week and finally gave in and mailed them Monday.  I don’t think the faxes ever went through, but they did receive what I mailed.  Yea! 

The doctor is out of the office today, but the nurse said she would try to get him to do them tomorrow and leave a note to call us as soon as they are ready.  If they finish them tomorrow I will drive over there, pick them up, and mail a copy to Holt that same day.  It’s a 30 minute drive one way, but it doesn’t matter.  We need these letters to continue the process.  We are at a standstill until we receive these, so I will risk life and limb to get them.  If he doesn’t get them done tomorrow we will have to have them mailed to us and it will be next week before we can get them sent to Holt.  Let’s pray he has a slow day at his doctor’s office, on a Friday, in the dead of winter, and has time to type them up for us…..it could happen.

It’s a chain reaction once we receive our medical:

Medical update-Home study update-I600A update-Dossier completion

Each one has to be completed before we can proceed with the next.  We are in hurry-up-and-wait mode!  That’s adoption world.  We are getting used to it and just doing what needs to be done and knowing it will all happen in God’s good time.

Adoption

Adoption Progress…

So far we have managed to get most of our dossier paper work completed.  Our fingerprints were done yesterday for the KBI background check and our Power of Attorney was mailed out to be state certified.  Now we wait. 

We are still waiting on our medical form update before our home study can be updated.  This is our main hold-up as of right now.  We need the home study to update our I600A, so this is a bit of a snag.  I’ve faxed it twice with no response, so I dropped hard copies in the mail Monday.  If we don’t get a reply by the end of the week our plan is to make new appointments with a PA we have seen before in a town nearby.

We spent the weekend priming and painting the nursery.  We used a low-odor, environmentally friendly primer and paint from Lowe’s.  We even looked at a few cribs here and there while we were out.  Randy thought they looked pretty cheap and wasn’t very impressed.  It’s hard to find anything made out of real wood anymore.  We will keep looking.  I don’t know if we will do a lot in the way of furniture.  We are going to try to stay on the low end spending-wise so we can save up for adoption expenses and travel.  We hope to buy second-hand when we’re able and only buy what we absolutely need.  For now we have a rocking chair, a few cloth storage totes for organizing the closet and changing area, and possibly a bookshelf.

Our paper work for our dossier is as complete as it can be until we receive our home study and can send off for our I600A update.  For now we are waiting on the medical forms and then the homestudy before we can move on.

Adoption

Adoption Update…

Although our Nepal adoption didn’t work out that doesn’t mean we stopped trying.  We had started the process to foster-adopt through the US.  Something we weren’t altogether sure about, but wanted to get the required classes under our belt and see where it led.  So far it hasn’t been very fruitful, but we intend to try to get all the classes taken so we will be ready on down the road to possibly adopt through the US foster care system.

In the meantime, we contacted Holt to discuss the possibility of reopening our file and updating all our paper work for an adoption from Ethiopia.  This was our initial desire, but too many things got in the way of our decision-making.  Too many things clouded our thoughts, our plans, and our lives for us to see this is where we needed to be all along.  When I ran the idea by Randy I wasn’t sure what his reaction would be….he simply said “okay.”  I asked if he was sure.  There was no hesitation.  This was the right decision for us.  We made the agreement to not look at the financial part of it, not get frustrated when things get tough, and no matter what we will get through it this time.  We have been saving, we have been on a tight budget, and we will save more during the waiting process.  Travel costs are less to and within Ethiopia and the travel time is less (10 days as opposed to 3-4 weeks).  We will speak to our vet about kenneling our dogs and have a backup vet if the first falls through.  We will discuss a detox program with our kinesiologist for when we return to help with all the vaccinations required for us and our baby.  All of the things we had reservations about before…we will adjust, we will plan for, we will deal with.  It’s part of the process, not something to deter us from doing what we are led to do.

I will call Holt this afternoon to let them know we are sure and want to proceed.  We have to update quite a bit of our paper work, redo our KBI fingerprinting and background check, have new medical exams, and a few other things.  However, this is old hat to us!

I’m buying paint Friday so we can continue finishing the baby’s room.  It had been put on hold along with everything else until we knew what was going to happen.  It is a long way from complete, but so is our adoption.  We have no furniture except a beautiful rocking chair passed down from Randy’s grandma.  The rest of the furniture taking up space in there will just have to find a new home here or elsewhere.  We are excited!  We are ready!  Say a little prayer this time is meant to be.

**We aren’t telling mom and dad yet.  We want a referral photo in hand before we break the news to them we will be leaving for 10 days, and they are in charge of our farm!

Animals

Lamb Update…

We got the little lamb back around 5:30 last night. He had gone off his food again, and once I had looked him over realized his mouth had gone cold, a sign hypothermia had set in once again. Randy and I took his temperature, 97.4 degrees. His temperature should have been 100-103 degrees. I quickly got a warm water bottle on his belly; a shot of dextrose warmed and administered, and used the blow dryer to warm him up. We got his temperature up, used a feeding tube to get 4 ounces of milk replacer down him, and tucked him into a bed of towels and hot water bottles. We were up at 11:00 pm to tube him and change out his water bottles. His breathing was very labored, and we could hear the rattle in his chest from fluid building up. We gave him excenel for the pneumonia setting in and went back to bed praying for the best. At 4:00 am we got up, tubed him, changed out his bedding and water bottles and left for work.

Randy planned to call Dan, the owner, to have him head over to our house around 11:00 am to change out his water bottles and possibly have Dad go tube feed him if needed. Dan never answered Randy’s many phone calls this morning, so I called up my brother at the last minute to have him run down and change them out before they turned cold and froze the little guy to death.

It was too late. The little lamb we were caring for had died. My brother was so good to take care of him for us. We tried so hard, but he was just too malnourished and had been too cold for too long.  It’s always so heartbreaking though.

Around the Homestead

Family Christmas…

Saturday night we all got together at my cousin’s house for dinner, the reading of the Christmas story, singing, and lots of good conversation and laughs.  There were over 90 people in this one home.  Thank you Cris & Sarah!  We also did a full family photo which I hope to post as soon as I receive one.

What Christmas is all about…the kids.  For our family it would be a multitude of girls!

And the star of the show….

This little guy was tuckered by the time we headed out.  We found him curled up on a rug in an out-of-the-way spot.  He had been passed around like a baby that evening and was wiped out.  Sarah kept trying to toss him outside, but somehow he always ended up back in and cradled in someone’s lap.  He is a mastif puppy and probably already twice that size only a few hours later.

The next day was our Christmas lunch at Grandma’s.  After we all scurried around to get ready for church we ate lunch and opened gifts.

The weather was beautiful Sunday. 

You have to come at our family from behind.  If they see you with a camera they bolt.  In the process of bolting they say mean things to you.  This is as good as it gets for a family photo in our gene pool!

Mom entertained the little city girls by letting them feed treats to Mom and Dad’s llama, Sylvester.

Then there were trees to climb.

The girls had fun playing with all their cousins over the weekend, doing farm things, and eating lots of good food.  Katie (oldest) even helped Randy with chores Sunday morning before church.  Too fun!

Dad even dropped in for a bite to eat before heading back to the field to cut milo.

It was a fun day with lots of good food,  good conversation, lots of laughs, and lots of memories.

Later in the afternoon we got a phone call from a friend who was having trouble with a little 3-day-old-lamb.  We said good-bye to everyone and loaded up the car, stop by home for a few supplies, and headed over to help.

I ended up tubing the lamb who refused a bottle on his own.  Dan was headed to work night shift later that evening, so we offered to take the lamb home for the night and care for him.

He wasn’t looking good when first got him home.  His body temperature had dropped just from the short car ride.  I put some hot water bottles wrapped in towels in the crate with him and headed out to do our chores.

At his 7:00 feeding, just 3 hours later, he was able to stand with a little assistance getting up.  At 11:30 he was still the same, could not get up on his own, didn’t cry, and barely took a bottle.  We gave him a shot of B Complex and some fresh hot water bottles and went back to bed.  At 3:30 I got up to feed him.  He was able to stand up on his own, thought he needed out of the kennel to mill around, and drank a decent amount of milk.  He isn’t out of the woods yet, but will hopefully make a full recovery.

Dan came by this morning while we were at work to pick him up.  He will be in charge of bottles throughout the day.  We have a massive snow storm moving in, so by no means would he be able to stay outside in the shape he is in.  Randy has stressed the importance of him needing to stay in the house, 4 hour feedings, and how upset I will be if anything happens to this little guy.  I think he made him nervous.  Dan mentioned he had a family dinner tonight and may bring the lamb back if that was okay.  He is also toying with the idea of us taking careof him for a few more days until he is strong enough to stay outside and the bad weather has passed.

I can’t refuse the little guy.  I will do just about anything for these little guys.  Besides, who doesn’t need a little lamb in their house around Christmas time?  It is becoming a tradition at our house.  Last year was when this little guy and gal came to live with us.

Hope everyone has a blessed and  Merry Christmas. 

Animals, Around the Homestead

Around the homestead….

I was cleaning and getting ready for a weekend of company.  Ash had been on and off the sofa three times that morning.  I would scold her and boot her off.  The next time I would walk through the living room she would be back on the sofa again.  The third time through I noticed Koal was MIA.  I looked all over for him and finally saw this:

While I was scolding Ash, he was playing Where’s Waldo on the loveseat.  Little darling.  I got his bed out of the bedroom and layed it in the living room so he could curl up on it.

The minute it hit the floor he was on it.

I finally got everyone situated…on the floor heaven forbid…so I could finish cleaning house.

Ash

Thai

Koal

 

Social

Lacey’s Baby Shower…

Sunday I had a baby shower for a friend of mine.  There were tons of people and presents. It was so fun seeing and visiting with everyone.  I don’t get out much and rarely get to see friends unless it is a special occasion (i.e. baby shower).  So it was a nice afternoon for me. Away…..Doing girlie things……Dressing up….I didn’t realize I had missed all of that a little bit. 

Here is the mama-to-be with her sisters and mom.

My aunt and uncle had stopped by the day before in the midst of our faucet project.  I was in carhart overalls, a carhart coat, muck boots, the works.  She commented on how nicely I clean up which was a nice reminder of what it’s like to be girlie.

Around the Homestead

Freeze-Free Faucet…

Not so freeze-free.

Saturday we had the pleasure of digging up the outside hydrant in our back sheep lot (again).  It’s a freeze/frost free faucet meaning it’s not supposed to freeze in the winter….guess what. 

 

So Randy and I dug the whole thing out.  The hole ended up being 3-4’ deep and the first 3 inches or so was frozen.  It was cold that day, but it had to be done. 

 

There is always someone who wants to drop in and help.

She really checked out the shovel, but never pitched in.

We discovered the problem.  The 5-gallon bucket that was supposed to prevent dirt from getting in the pipe had broken and filled with dirt. 

We needed rock to put around the new bucket to prevent dirt from getting into the pipe again and causing the faucet to not drain back and freeze up again.  So we drove to town where a friend of ours gave us 2 five-gallon buckets full of rock to use.  Home we went to finish up the project.

At this point I went inside to do some cooking and housekeeping.  In the meantime Randy went to finish up.  Shortly after we parted he came inside to tell me he had broken the new faucet and we needed to buy a new one before dark when it would freeze our now exposed piping in the hole.  He called around and found a new faucet a 30 minute drive away.  So we loaded up and drove to get our new-new $120 faucet.  Sigh!

Long story short…..the faucet is fixed, the sheep and chickens have water, and it is a lot easier on Randy doing chores to not have to carry a five-gallon bucket of hot water out to thaw the faucet or drag a hose from the shop and run it from another faucet out to the tanks to water the sheep and chickens.  Life is good!

Animals

Christmas Cruelty and Cuteness…

Thai as Santa

Koal as a Reindeer

Ash as an Angel

Get my good side

Ash as a Reindeer

Which she apparently wasn’t a fan of….

at all

these puppies are coming off

We hitched the little guy up to our sleigh for a shot.  He’s pumped, can you tell?

Thai never really got over being terrified of the antlers.

The scared-to-death look never really went away during our dress-up photo shoot.  Poor little guy.  He’s also afraid of squeeky dog toys, the vacuum, if you drop something and it makes a loud noise or a not loud noise, and his shadow.

We are hard pressed to find good entertainment out in the sticks….so we make due.

Enjoy the Christmas festivities!